Low self-esteem comes in many varieties, and you will get to know your own unique brand if you spend any time in the lifestyle.
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A European Swingers’ Paradise
The challenge for any club, anywhere, is to create a party vibe. Lameness and desperation are always lurking at the door.
Finally, Our First Full-Swap
HIM: Full-swap sex with another couple wasn’t part of any master plan as we set out on our great sexual adventure. I guess the truth was that we had no particular destination in mind, and that was probably a good thing. We simply put one foot in front of the other — together — just…
Our First House Party
I’m generally not one for re-enacting classic porn tableaux but, honestly, it felt great.
Online Dating for Couples
I imagined us meeting the perfect couple, sharing a connection that moved effortlessly between the social and the sexual.
What’s Your Number?
I have very uncomplicated feelings about women who enjoy sex: I approve whole-heartedly.
Keeping Secrets
HER: We had a party at our house recently where, in a haze of whisky-laced apple cider and white wine, I told my siblings that we had tried sex clubs and vacationed at Hedonism. They all had the same conservative, religious upbringing I did, but, like me, they’re all very sexual and pretty liberal in their views. …
The Greatest Threesome in the History of the World
HIM: When we were writing our article ‘The Quantified Sex Life’ a couple of weeks ago, I got caught up reading through the notes section of the sex log I keep. Usually I just jot down a sentence or two for each entry to help my memory, though occasionally I will try to capture what…
Our MFM Experiment: Getting it Right
HIM: Six weeks after our disastrous first experience with another man, we got a text from Derek saying he had some ideas about how we could do things differently if we wanted to try again. I met him for lunch to discuss them, and he suggested that we take some pictures of you as an…