It was a sad epiphany: I realized that an erection was a deeply mysterious involuntary reflex.
Tag: sex
The Softest of Soft-Swaps
It was weird – in one sense, you could say it was a series of missteps and outright fails, yet somehow we ended up having so much sex we actually had to take two nights off after just to recover.
The Lifestyle has a Bi(g) Problem
I never want to feel that I was trapped by the conventions of my time, my choices limited by unreasoning prejudice.
Swinging with Insecurities
Low self-esteem comes in many varieties, and you will get to know your own unique brand if you spend any time in the lifestyle.
A European Swingers’ Paradise
The challenge for any club, anywhere, is to create a party vibe. Lameness and desperation are always lurking at the door.
The Darkest Fantasy
Nothing beats the Bible for depravity, and I mean that as a compliment.
Finally, Our First Full-Swap
HIM: Full-swap sex with another couple wasn’t part of any master plan as we set out on our great sexual adventure. I guess the truth was that we had no particular destination in mind, and that was probably a good thing. We simply put one foot in front of the other — together — just…
A Letter from My Former Self
If it doesn’t overwhelm you, the bittersweet ache of longing can provide the impetus to make difficult changes
Our First House Party
I’m generally not one for re-enacting classic porn tableaux but, honestly, it felt great.
Online Dating for Couples
I imagined us meeting the perfect couple, sharing a connection that moved effortlessly between the social and the sexual.
Hedo Diaries: So Many Firsts
We joined the naked, slippery mass of hedonistic revelers writhing in time to the music. This was our first foam party.
What’s Your Number?
I have very uncomplicated feelings about women who enjoy sex: I approve whole-heartedly.